Proverbs 15:14 tells us that if we have God's understanding, we can ask Him for the knowledge to overcome every trial and problem we face. God is bigger than our grief, sorrow, pain and every problem that any of us could face. We must never blame Him for our troubles, as the devil is the trouble maker, not our Lord. God is there for us, to help us overcome anything the enemy has done, or is trying to do. God is the one that will rescue us and help us in our hour of need. However, we must not be like the fool who feeds on his folly. This is a person who is continually mouthing his troubles and blaming others, including God, for his circumstances. He feeds on self-pity and rehearses his problems to all who will listen. We must give our heartaches and troubles to God and keep a cheerful attitude no matter what is going on in our lives. We need to remember, "this too, shall pass" as God is eternal and has a good plan for our future.
I am not grieving the loss of a death, but of a person who entered my life so briefly, but made a huge impact on my life. I know God has a plan for me...and yet I wonder why certain people enter your life. This wonderful man entered my life...so briefly but ineffectually changed it forever. I thought and dreamed of so much more than I ever imagined...Something I have not done in a very long time. Since I have been seperated for so long and divorced since 2005, I put my heart and soul into a new friendship that I wished for so more..and thought we had. I forgot what it was like to have a person who was such a Christian, great communicator, dad, and so much more..and he entered my life. So at this point I am hurting, as this person who so quickly came into my life, has now decided to move on...and out of my life...I am hurting so bad!! It really makes me not want to put my heart out there again..so I hope in time this person can find what they are looking for. Sometimes we don't see what is right in front of us? Life is so complicated when one person wants one thing, and another person wants something else?